So this this evening I decided to update the home-cluster to 6.0.0 from 5.5 and gosh what an annoyance. you can no longer force vCenter onto a machine with less than 9 GB's of RAM, as it needs true 8196 to install and not all memory is true 8196.
So I'm over here P2V'in the vCenter to the home cluster, peg it to 12 GB's of RAM, power it on and then upgrading it to 6.0.0 and then throwing it back onto the host in a V2P. If vCenter doesn't like it screw it, it's just for a home lab.

I like having vCenter seperate from the cluster, call me nutso.

This might be helpful for others...