TechGromit said: I studied my butt off for the GREM, I guess part of the reason I was able to be more focused was I was single, well technically separated, so it was something to get my mind off relationship stuff. The same would hold true for my other SANS certs, my relationship with the ex wasn't the best, so it was easy to focus my attention elsewhere. Re-married now, when she says she wants to go Geo-caching or play D&D, I'm like lets GO, I can study later.