And so is what is left of my brain. Passed this morning.
The exam was different to what I had expected. It was much more indepth on protocol details than appliance knowledge and as I thought beforehand routing protocols were my worst section, need to work on that heavily for the lab. Still it was a fair exam. The funniest thing though was one question I absolutely know was not on any of the CCSP or CCIE related study but I remembered it from the Security+, the InfoSec intro exam that keeps on giving

I used the following (listed in order of how intensely they were studied; from exhaustive re-reads to quickly skimmed):
CCIE Security Certification Guide 2nd Ed.
Cisco Network Security Troubleshooting Handbook
Cisco ASA: All-in-One Firewall, IPS, and VPN Adaptive Security Appliance
The Complete Cisco VPN Configuration Guide
CCSP IPS Exam Certification Guide + CBTNuggets
CCSP VPN Exam Certification Guide
CCSP SNRS Exam Certification Guide + CBTNuggets
CCSP SND CBTNuggets
Internet Security Protocols : Protecting IP Traffic
The Protocols (TCP/IP Illustrated : Volume 1)
CCIE Security Quicksheets
Security Monitoring with Cisco mars
Advanced Host Intrusion Prevention with CSA
Cisco Access Control Security: AAA Administration Services
Cisco ASA and PIX Firewall Handbook
Cisco Security Architectures
Cisco.com product guides for the Anomaly Detector and Guard Appliances and modules.
The single most surprising to me was the Cisco Network Troubleshooting Handbook, I thought I'd skim through it and just pick up some extra tips but it's actually an excellent study source in addition to the more direct handbooks.
I've still got at least as many recommended books to go through and a few others I've picked up over the last few months but didn't have time to read before the Exam (like "Routing TCP/IP Vol1 and 2...yep lots of time on those..

). The lab certainly is not the end of my theory studies.
I've got a decent if minimal lab hobbled together that will be supplemented with Dynagen/Dynamips and PEMU so onward to the lab....eventually....when my head stops feeling like it's on fire....Maybe by the end of the year.
Anyway thanks to all the folks here who provide so much support. I really don't think I'd have stuck with my studies this long without this place. Kudos all.