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  • Chris:/*Chris:/* Member Posts: 658 ■■■■■■■■□□
    Congrats!
    Degrees:
    M.S. Information Security and Assurance
    B.S. Computer Science - Summa Cum Laude
    A.A.S. Electronic Systems Technology
  • rogue2shadowrogue2shadow Member Posts: 1,501 ■■■■■■■■□□
  • earweedearweed Member Posts: 5,192 ■■■■■■■■■□
    Congrats man!
    No longer work in IT. Play around with stuff sometimes still and fix stuff for friends and relatives.
  • lockdnloadedlockdnloaded Member Posts: 43 ■■□□□□□□□□
  • za3bourza3bour Member Posts: 1,062 ■■■■□□□□□□
    Congratulations, it's always nice to hear some good news with all the stress we've been living in. I can imagine how this 8 months was so I really wish you the best of luck in the new job.
  • neocybeneocybe Member Posts: 79 ■■□□□□□□□□
    Thanks Everyone,

    Definately feels good to be moving forward again. I've felt like life has been on hold since March.

    Now I can start scheduling some tests over the next few weeks and wrap up MCITP:EA by spring 2011
  • kurosaki00kurosaki00 Member Posts: 973
    lol you may find this really bad but
    I just never hope for something good lol
    every time I go to an interview I'm like I know I wont get this job but, I'll do it anyways".
    I do give my best in the interview, but I think not having hopes calm my anxiety.
    meh
  • N2ITN2IT Inactive Imported Users Posts: 7,483 ■■■■■■■■■■
    I am happy for you!
  • AnonymouseAnonymouse Member Posts: 509 ■■■■□□□□□□
    neocybe wrote: »
    I just bombed an interview this morning; put on the suit, drove to the office . . . . could not will myself out of the car.

    It's embarrassing and abnoxious that I have 10yrs of solid IT experience and have been in far more stressful situations than an interview but somehow a little jitters turns into a major show stopper.

    So my question is - how do you deal with interview anxiety?

    Not trying to be an ass but it sounds like you may have more serious problems than dealing with anxiety.
  • hex_omegahex_omega Member Posts: 183
    Anonymouse wrote: »
    Not trying to be an ass but it sounds like you may have more serious problems than dealing with anxiety.
    Like???
  • mikedisd2mikedisd2 Member Posts: 1,096 ■■■■■□□□□□
    Anonymouse wrote: »
    Not trying to be an ass but it sounds like you may have more serious problems than dealing with anxiety.

    Not at all; it's just a matter of pushing the right buttons. My way of handling this is to think of our 3x year daughter, and that I owe it for her sake to get us all to a better place.

    Anxiety can hit anyone and it may call for some perspective. Not always, of course.
  • superman859superman859 Member Posts: 55 ■■□□□□□□□□
    You have to approach it like you approach asking a beautiful woman on a date. Sure you would like too, but honestly its not the most important thing in the world. That mindset puts you in a place of calm confidence that helps you mentally and tells the interviewer that you are self assured and interested in the opportunity but not too eager.

    Approach it like approaching a beautiful woman for a date? That doesn't calm my nerves in the slightest bit! I think I talk more in interviews than in those situations! icon_lol.gif
    Degrees: B.S. Computer Science, B.S. Mathematics

    Certifications: Network+, Security+

    In-Progress: M.S. Computer Science, CEH
  • jayc71jayc71 Member Posts: 112 ■■■■□□□□□□
    Don't beat yourself up over it too much, nerves get the best of all of us from time to time. Personally, I've had times where I just can't think straight during an interview because I'm uncomfortable for one reason or another. I think the advice given above about going on interviews when you don't NEED a job is spot on since that relieves a ton of the associated pressure....but I know that isn't always possible.

    Use it as a learning experience and move on, it's not the end of the world!
    CISSP, CCSP, CCSK, Sec+, AWS CSA/Developer/Sysops Admin Associate, AWS CSA Pro, AWS Security - Specialty, ITILv3, Scrummaster, MS, BS, AS, my head hurts.
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