Forsaken_GA wrote: » cant answer this poll, no option for completely debt free
Forsaken_GA wrote: » but if you have the money to pay for the service up front, then you wouldn't be incurring debt, it'd be like buying a hamburger.
mikej412 wrote: » I'm putting a $7000 flood control system for my Mom's house in Chicago on my credit card next week.... can I get fries with that?
badboyeee wrote: » damn my mortgage, i owe more than what its valued..
SteveLord wrote: » If you are only responsible for yourself, a used camry, ramen noodles and a 1 bedroom bachelor pad...it's easy to stay out of debt. When you get married, have to pay for 2 cars, a house, kids, groceries beyond what you can get at a gas station and any emergencies with the aforementioned.....we can talk. You aren't as invincible as you think then. And to think everyone gets into debt because they charged up electronics and designer clothing...well, you're just foolish.
Forsaken_GA wrote: » I'm hesitant to post this, as I'm not trying to create an adversarial conversation. Hopefully you'll take it the way I mean it. I don't know the specifics of your situation, but with most folks I know in that situation, they paid too much for their cars, and they probably should have been renting instead of buying, especially if they didn't put down at least 20% on the house to avoid PMI. Pride and/or convenience is what gets folks into debt most of the time, because they can't bear the thought of driving a beater, no matter how reliable it is, or because the wife just *HAD* to have *THAT* house. Personally, I drive a used Civic that I've had for 7 years, and will probably drive for at least 2 more, rent a 2 bedroom apartment, and eat pretty well, and my bills consume less than half my income (and that's accounting for blow and entertainment as part of the 'bills'). I do have the advantage of being single, and a respectable salary. I could easily qualify for a $300k mortgage with 5% down, or drive a BWM, neither payment would be difficult to make. But it'd still be financially stupid. Instead, I'm saving up at least 20% to put down on a house, probably somewhere closer to the $150k range, because that would satisfy my needs, and I have no desire to live in a big house by myself. If I went full bore savings mode for about another 5 years, I could just pay cash for a house outright, and that's appealing to me as well. I'm also saving up to buy my next car for cash, which will be a used Honda (haven't decided if I'll buy another Civic, or if I'll be spendy and upgrade to an Accord!). If I did get married and had a couple kids, and the mom wasn't contributing to the household income at all, I could still make it, because I'm careful with my budgeting. I obviously wouldn't have half my income disposable anymore, but I'd still be able to cover all the bills, and still be able to put some money away. It is perfectly viable to live within your means, without going into debt, if you keep things realistic. If you've already dug yourself into a deep financial hole, then yeah, it's alot more difficult, which is why I hope some of the younger folk who haven't gotten there yet pick up on the message and AVOID DEBT.