Currently the fiance and I are having the where do we want to live discussion. We are both really sick of NY, but like DC (and the surrounding area), Boston, and North Carolina. I was wondering what IT is like in some of these areas (if anyone feels like sharing). I feel like if we don't move now while we are young we are going to get stuck in NY forever

I feel like DC would be a great place to work considering I'm into security and all. Opinions anyone?