Can't believe it .. ordered a new Linux VPS with 32 Bit .. for hours I am getting all sorts of weird problems .. Can't even flipping install PHP as it is looking for the wrong MySQL libraries ...
After 5hrs I finally find out that they comissioned 64Bit .... no error was clearly pointing an architecture problem otherwise it would have saved me a lot of time ..
So note to self : 'uname -m' when getting a new server