Remote Positions/Next Steps
I know this has been discussed before, but I feel like I'm in a position that's new to me and I'm struggling to cope with it. I'll try to keep my thoughts clear/concise.
Background:
-Graduated from CC with AAS in IT in December 2013; accepted first job a few days after and stayed until August 2015
-Went to new role; significant pay jump and strictly networking. Great experience and no complaints
-Earned BS at WGU in IT Security during my time at this position
-Left in April 2017 to relocate to a warmer climate; significant pay bump
Current Situation:
-Not overly happy at new job after 1.5 years
-Much bigger organization (3,000) and no structure, workflow procedure, ITIL compliance, etc.
-Working to secure training/development for colleagues, fix up years of neglect, etc.
-Job is fairly flexible with commute and pay is better (but not good enough) than other opportunities
-Not many openings in current market
Desire:
-Happy with location, but think I'd rather go further south; not 100% on any specific location but have a short list
-Can try and find jobs in the city of choice and move when I do but honestly struggling with the idea of a strict 8-5 cubicle position; did not get job offering 15k more after it was clear I was not up for the commute and in-office experience in the current market I live in
-Degree is in security; familiar with NGFWs, ISE, and threat-hunting (latter due to certification only; not on the job). But my bread/butter skill set is networking (including voice, LAN/WAN, firewalls, etc.)
What's the way to deal with finding a job that's 100% remote or flexible? I did not really know this position was until I started. I'm all about it now, and it's become a pain point for me. I've brought it up on a few interviews but it's not gone over well. I've had a few interviews with the CDWs of the world, but that sort of contract-to-hire work seems high stress and not what I'm looking for. My girlfriend works from home 100% (with a decent amount if travel required however) and is able to move anywhere, but admittedly the kind of cities we are targeting won't offer a ton of job opportunities (or if they do, it's a lengthy commute and not something I could tolerate 5 days a week).
I know I'm asking for a unicorn, but is there a way to narrow the search? I'm at the point where I would take a sacrifice in pay for the flexibility, and even more so if the position was very low stress. As a baseline, I am looking at around $100k for a "regular" in-person full time job. I would have no issue working at a lower rate (like $85k) as a trade-off for the work environment I seek.
For reference, we are looking at locations like Ana Maria Island and Cape Coral. They aren't terribly far from Sarasota and Fort Myers, but I don't think I'm up for commuting in the office 5 days a week. I don't mind a couple of days; I'm productive in different ways when in the office vs. remote. But I'm over having to beg to work half the day from home due to a lunchtime dentist appointment or sitting in traffic for an hour each way every single day. I know - I'm soft. I've come to terms.
I search for things like 'remote network engineer' but most of the jobs are actually in-person. I could focus on the locations I'd live near and then hope we can reach a flexible arrangement, but there's dozens of jobs on that search vs. thousands country-wide. I really don't mind in-person; I'm jut not looking for it 5 days a week. But I would also do 100% remote. I want to search efficiently but not limit my options.
I'd appreciate any input.