I finally got hired!!...
As someone else had put it, "what a way to start the new year!" Got my CCNA Security the 22nd of December... set up the interview over the Christmas/New Year holiday, then last Monday, I had the interview and landed it the same day! For the record, the concept still remains that it's WHO you know and not
what you know. In my case, it's a bit of
who and
what, but the WHO was very important. Luck favors the prepared!

My ONLY issue: I think I (actually,
they) could've done a bit better with the salary, though, and I was kicking myself for not negotiating harder... I was sort of caught off guard - I was not expecting them to call back the same day while I was in between my 2 jobs having lunch. They asked me how much I was looking for, and I told them my "targeted" price range, and they told me the range they had advertised in the job listing [I never saw] - their top number was the bottom number of mine (my range was simply a target - which, by the way, included an average salary for the certs & level of education I have, so I thought it was reasonable - but I did have an absolute bottom number lower than my own range, which would have been acceptable under certain conditions) and their bottom number was something I probably would not have accepted. SO, after he told me their range, they offered only slightly more than their bottom number! That number fell EVER so slightly short of my absolute bottom number, which was the only problem I had with it - why
mention your range if you're going to offer so low on it? I felt a bit insulted, sort of. Why would they set the high-low range so wide unless they were willing to actually consider the highest amount or close to it, or at least hit the middle somewhere? After such a tough, long haul trying to get back to my IT roots, and to attempt to live some kind of a normal lifestyle for once (not working at 2 jobs, or having to be in school or both, while I should instead be thinking or active about having a family or home at this age), I was just hoping not to be short-changed again (shafted). It's like you ALMOST get to your goal every time, but just can't - you fall short, once AGAIN.

So, under pressure, I accepted it anyway (with a request to TRY to get it higher - he said he needed to speak to an authority about it, so I MAY end up getting a tad bit more, but I'm not getting my hopes up). This one job, even at that low number he offered,
still pays more than the 2 I currently have, and it offers benefits and other perks, and it's not far away, AND the experience is what's most important anyway. I don't want to sound ungrateful, because I'm still thrilled to have a new opportunity to grow (and to have more money

). It was just an awkward situation and a part of me is disappointed, despite being ecstatic (if that makes any sense).
Maybe I'm being excessively nit-picky (maybe not?) but I'm happy and can exhale a bit, finally. Can't wait to get started. It's a small company not far from home, and they're expanding and I'll be doing help desk stuff, but lots of other things including working with MS, Cisco & perhaps Juniper systems, servers, setting up & maintaining network security & more. I hope it's all that it's cracked up to be, I hope the new situation works out and is, at the very least, a great setup to a better near-future. Thanks to you all for all the inspiration and advice and for existing. This site has definitely been a blessing. HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!