Hello everyone!
Just looking for some more words of wisdom,
So i dont know if anyone remembers me posting about getting a new job, but I was super excited when I got the offer that I wouldn't have to work at my retail store anymore and would finally be working at a help desk position in an office and learn so much for my career.
I accepted the offer on august 22nd, I had school starting on august 25th. So I was in the quitting phase for my retail job. As school kept adding to hw and picking up the pace after the first week, I found myself getting behind because I was working a full time job and am now doing two cisco classes, a security+ class, and a physics class (my last gen ed to graduate and I just happened to have not taken any math classes in over three years). Anyways, after week two, I suddenly remembered how last year I was considering switching to part time for the next school semester in order to have more time to focus on school.
Well after this week, I just started my new job. I am now working 8:30 to 5 Monday-Friday (yay!), and Monday, Tuesday, and Thursday I have an hour to get from work to class. The drive ends up being about 1h 15m going back after 5pm. I have been late to every class this week, and every prof is frowning on that. This is also before any bad weather has set in, which I imagine I will be screwed once it rolls along. I also have class Saturday morning from 7am - 1pm, then work in my now once a week part time retail job from 2-11 (I kept it for the insurance because new job offers no benefits because it's a startup).
I have found that after this week, that I am very stressed to do well in school and perform well in this job. I barely finished my secu+ hw on time ( which are just the chapter questions at the end of a chapter). I had to skim for the answers, which is not a way to learn the material which I will need in order to pass the cert exam which I plan to do.
I will have to do the same for my Cisco class, and it's just really basic stuff for now, basically reviews from my Net+ studies. But once the subnetting comes into play I will be hard pressed for time I imagine. Also in 5 weeks the class is advancing from intro to R&S, which I imagine will be harder.
My physics class is the hardest for me because I have a really hard time understanding the math portion, since I haven't done any math in awhile and it never really was my strongest subject. For this week, if my girlfriend hadn't done my physics hw for me, I believe I would be screwed. But the hw doesn't count for anything in class, only tests do, which once test time starts, I'll be screwed since I'll be too busy doing the other classes and could possibly fail.
Now to the point, I don't know whether I should tell my new boss about this situation and see if we can work out a part time position (might be possible since it is a startup and they really do need people at the moment), or whether I should leave that new job and just work part time at my old retail job until I am done with this semester (last semester for my assoc degree btw). Or if maybe I should just leave the part time completely, but I would still have the issue of getting to class.
At this point, I don't think I'll be able to do well in school with this kind of balance. This is only my first week and I already feel like ripping my hair out.
The new job itself is actually very laid back, and it is a great opportunity to get better, but there is no training and almost zero direction.
I also cannot afford to not work at all, I need at least 25-30 hours of work at old job to keep me and my family afloat.
- Anyways tldr:
- Got new job
- kept old job at part time
- working and schooling
- not enough time to do hw
- drive to new job making me late to all classes
- want to either leave new job and go part time with old job with focus on school
I know many people would kill to be in my position, but I don't think I can handle this position at the moment. Any input would be greatly appreciated, even calling me a wuss =p
Thanks guys