Job Advice Needed
Hello All,
This site has been a tremendous resource for me, though I lurk more often than post, admittedly. I would normally keep this sort of thing to myself but I've been mulling the possibilities for a while now and after discussing with those close to me, am no closer to a decision.
Here's my brief story. I live in NJ and have 3 degrees (1 tech AAS, 1 BS degree from WGU) and some certs (2 CCNAs, been working on CCNP for a few months but still a bit to go on that). First job I was at for 1.5 years and finished at 34k. Second job I have been at for almost 1.5 years and am at 59k. I live in NJ.
I am interested in relocating to South Carolina or Florida, but have only done visiting and apartment touring in the former (2 different trips). I have 2 job offers in SC, though I don't need to take either and have been dragging my feet because my girlfriend is struggling to find an opportunity there (it seems Florida has more jobs in her field).
Job A: Government contracting, 70k, 5k relocation, 'free' benefits, 6% 401k match
Job B: Call center, 59.5k + 12-18% min-max bonus, 3500 signing bonus, 2500 relocation, 'free' benefits, 4% 401k match
Job B seems like a place I'd enjoy more. Smaller, more personable. I'd be the network guy (this is a new position) and work to 'in-source' a lot of the work handled by various MSPs. Would require late maintenance windows and on-call rotation (every other week).
Job A gets me a clearance, but seems like there would be a lack of culture.
Job B thinks the cost of living will be less, though the apartment situation seems to be pretty similar (property tax is dramatically less, but would not benefit me yet). I see limited salary increase since they have made it clear it would be their second highest paid position (they upped their offer $7k after negotiating). They do, however, have a new office opening next year with plans for 3 more.
I'm not overly familiar with either market. If I remained in NJ, I'd be seeking $75k-$80k at my next job. So I'm thinking those salaries are probably to be expected due to CoL differences (even though I'm not expecting to benefit too much).
What should I do? If I take either, I'm committed and girlfriend must make it work, somehow. She'd probably remain back home until she secured something. If I hold off, it buys me time while she continues searching, and FL might be where she finds an opportunity. Of course, if I pass, less desirable positions may be offered to me down the road and I'll regret it.
This would be my first major move and I would have no relatives close by in either state.
Input appreciated!