I failed the soul-sucking CISSP for the 2nd time yesterday. I feel defeated and embarrassed and that I'll be taking it again for the 3rd time. And the worst part is that I didn't even tell anyone that I was re-taking the exam. Not even my family or friends know. Now only you guys. You'll keep my secret right? 

I took it with the new CAT format and there were no major changes beside the 'back/flag' button no longer available. My major mistake was that I took too much time at the beginning and rushed through the rest of the exam with 12 seconds to spare. The reason I took too long in the beginning because I had a hard time reading and understanding the questions. They were written by someone whose first language is not English - like Yoda-style. Many of the questions were grammatically incorrect. Just badly written. I had to read most questions 3-4 times just to even understand what I was reading.
I've been studying since last May, and hard core studying for the past 3 months after my first fail. Lessons learned include:
My first attempt (Nov) - I took a useless bootcamp, only read/used the Shon Harris book, and took practice quizzes with CCCure because it came with the bootcamp. My mistake here was using limited resources.
Second attempt - I skimmed through the Sybex book, CISSP for Dummies, Sunshine PDF and 11 Hour, focusing only on my weak areas. I took 4 legal pads of notes and made several stacks of note cards. I felt pretty confident but failed. I rushed the last 50 questions because I was running out of time. I was in a panic and thought my heart was going to jump out of my chest with the last 10 questions.Then the dreaded printer. Last time when I failed, 2 pages for failing, and 1 for passing. This new format, only 1 page for failing. The people at the front desk do not even look you in the eyes because they know! Then you have to ask yourself, "do I scream or cry all the way back to the car??"  They should offer bar-service at the Pearson test centers. They'd make a killing.
So now I have to wait 3 more months before I can retake the exam for the 3rd time and endure everyone asking me "when are you going to retake the CISSP?"  I've been lurking/reading many of your posts. I silently cheer you on when you pass because I know you must feel so relieved and exhilarated. For those who failed I feel your pain and encouraged by your re-attempts.
Now my attempt is to read the Sybex book in its entirety, CCCure quiz because I still have access, do more practice tests, and focus on "oh sh*t this wasn't mentioned in the book" areas. I'm also using many of your suggestions re: study materials and habits. What else can I do?
Thanks for listening, you guys are the best!