I met a relative this weekend that had worked in IT for several years as a server admin. He wasn't really talkative about his job and I soon found why. Once I mentioned I was working on my CCNA the first thing out of his mouth was go to (popular well known braindump site) and I'd pass easily. He told me that's how he was able to earn his 3 Microsoft certifications one of which was the MSCE.

I obviously couldn't give him my actual opinion as this is a relative I've just met so I just nodded politely. I'm not surprised this loser lost his job and I hope he stays out of the IT field. What bothers me is I can't get other people to understand why braindumps are wrong and why it's basically cheating. I've been told straight-faced by friends that getting to see an exam before a test isn't cheating it's just "reviewing".
Am I explaining braindumps poorly to people? Even if you know nothing about IT it's obvious cheating period. I get annoyed because I've worked hard on what I have so far and I'm working extremely hard right now. It isn't right to say it's ok for people to ****.
I needed vent, I just wish more people would understand cheating is wrong. Anyone have similar experiences? I don't mean just online where you can get the person banned, but in life where you have to deal with them; where it would you look bad, and impolite to call them out on it.