Boss dislike me?

Recently, it *appears* as if the boss doesn't like me. I still do work but i don't work as hard like i used to when i started in my first 6-7 months. I was told that there are tons of opportunities but it's the opposite. Hard to motivate myself to work harder and learn more. I changed slightly because i found out that there is no career growth within the company, salary is locked and will not increase even if i work here for years. It could take 3-5 years to move to another department and it's way too long!! It seems like some of my colleagues received schedule training and i didn't. So I feel awkward. It seems like the manager knows my plan and knows that i might leave soon. And yes, i do plan to resign once i find a better opportunity. It could be tomorrow or even soon. i'm getting the feeling that the longer i stay, they expect more of me. but i honestly dont enjoy the working here.
I want to leave in good terms but maybe im overthinking this whole situation?
I want to leave in good terms but maybe im overthinking this whole situation?
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There will be no particular moment in life where you will be like "Ah Huh! I have made it, my life is all set!" Even if your a billionaire or married your soul mate. There is simply no destination in life. It is a CONSTANT journey until you die. One quote I love by Tony Robbins is "Either you grow, or die."
I look at life and realize one day when I die, all that is really left is my materialistic things that my kids will probably fight over. I want to leave behind a legacy/positive memories of me, by being the best man that I can be. I genuinely do 100% in all tasks, and I do it only for myself. It makes me sleep soundly at night and makes me wake up every morning with a smile smile.
Make work your best friend. You would never slack, or treat your best friends like $@% right? Think of slacking off, not doing 100% at work as insulting yourself and your best friend.
Just got to change your philosophy mate!
^^ If all this does not motivate you. Then do realize how fortunate you are to even HAVE a job. I personally know of households living in apartments with 8-12 people. Many people would do anything to have a job, ESPECIALLY a IT related job where they do not have to do labor intensive work, or do nasty stuff like clean bathrooms, gutters etc.
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Result: my journey with the company was completely different from what the HR told me at the very beginning and from what I pictured during my first few months.
Morale: (a) future opportunities may not been seen or appreciated in present, (b) attitude creates opportunities.
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I didn't like my first job because of my boss. But I stayed and worked hard because thats what I was getting paid to do. There was no room for advancement and people were getting raises quicker than I was. Other things stacked against me but I sucked it up and did what I had to do while I was there. I suggest the same to you. At least you have a job. There are a lot of people that don't have a job and would be happy to take your position just to have a job. Don't give you're employer a reason to get rid of you. Stay motivated in everything you do even if you don't like it.
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Modify it a bit for the current situation, but you essentially have the same problem you've had in all the threads you've started like this.
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